Why Relationships Matter

Why relationships matter: big sisters
Why relationships matter: big sisters

Becoming a Big Sister

Before we talk about marketing, I have a very personal story to tell. I was 22 years old and wanted to make a difference. I worked for a company close to a children’s home; so, I applied to be a big sister. I was assigned to a 15-year-old girl who was in the violent lockdown building. She was in the system her entire life and bounced from foster home to foster home where she was abused in horrific ways. She ended up in this facility because no one could handle her. When I met her she was so heavily sedated that she drooled, fell asleep in her food, and slurred her words. 

At first, I was only allowed to visit her an hour once per week. I would bring her favorite – McDonalds cheeseburgers. We would watch movies and talk. During that time she was never violent with me, but I saw the workers take her down on the floor in locks when she was yelling and swinging at them. Eventually, she made so much progress that she came off the meds, and we were allowed to do offsite activities together. We went to movies, fed horses carrots, decorated a Christmas tree, went out to eat, and so much more. 

After working with her for two years, she was sent to a transitional facility out of town. We kept in touch by phone for another year. When she turned 18, she aged out, was released, and became homeless. I moved. My phone number was unlisted, and I could not reach her. We lost touch. Fast forward many years – she found me on Facebook and wrote me the most amazing letter about how she was alive because of me and that I was the only person in the world who ever loved her or believed in her. She went to college, got married, had two beautiful daughters, and lives on a farm with horses, dogs, and cats. In June 2024, I went to her younger daughter’s high school graduation party. I volunteered at a horse therapy barn with her older daughter. She calls me her big sis, and her daughters call me their aunt.

Opening to Possibility

In August 2023, my 16-year-old cat, a brilliant tuxedo named Stas, died. It broke my heart. He was my everything. In October, my little sister contacted me saying she found a really smart tuxedo kitten in the road who was abandoned at four weeks old. She bottle fed him, raised him, and thought I might be interested. I went to visit the weekend after Thanksgiving. He was 12 weeks old and came home with me. His name is Boca because he talked a lot as a kitten. Now, he has a little brother who is 18 weeks old named Toby, “a gift from God.” These babies would not be in my life without her. She says she finally feels like she repaid me for saving her. She saved me in return in my time of grief and loss.

With a single action, a ripple effect occurs. If we make the right decisions at the right time, we can have the same impact on our businesses and world. If we continue to develop ourselves and our businesses, we will flourish. And when we succeed, how many families are positively impacted by that success? Those of our customers, our employees, our own families, and our friends. Her two daughters would not exist if that child had not made it in life. I would not have my kitten Boca if not for her.

Building Lasting Connections

In a similar way, marketing is relational. It’s a field that transcends mere transactional exchanges to foster enduring connections between businesses and their customers. This is increasingly relevant in today’s dynamic business environment where trust, loyalty, and engagement are paramount.

Understanding the Customer

The first step in relational marketing is understanding the customer. This involves deep insights into their needs, preferences, behaviors, and pain points. Through methods such as market research, surveys, and data analytics, businesses can gather valuable information about their target audience. This understanding allows companies to tailor their products, services, and marketing messages to meet the specific needs of their customers, which creates a personalized experience that fosters a sense of connection.

Building Trust and Credibility

Trust is the cornerstone of any meaningful relationship, and this is no different in marketing. Building trust involves consistent and transparent communication, delivering on promises, and providing high-quality products or services. When customers trust a brand, they are more likely to remain loyal, make repeat purchases, and recommend the brand to others. Trust is built over time through positive interactions and experiences.

Customer Engagement and Interaction

Engagement is a critical component of relational marketing. It’s not enough to simply push messages to the audience; businesses must actively engage with their customers. This can be achieved through various channels such as social media, email marketing, and customer service. Engaging with customers allows businesses to listen to their feedback, address their concerns, and foster a two-way dialogue. This interaction helps build a sense of community and belonging, strengthening the relationship between the brand and its customers.

Long-term Relationship Building

Relational marketing focuses on building long-term relationships rather than short-term gains. This involves nurturing customer relationships over time through consistent and meaningful interactions. Strategies such as loyalty programs, customer retention initiatives, and continuous engagement are crucial for maintaining these relationships. By investing in long-term relationship building, businesses can create a loyal customer base that provides sustainable growth and profitability.

The Role of Technology

Technology plays a pivotal role in relational marketing by enabling businesses to gather data, analyze customer behavior, and deliver personalized experiences. Customer Relationship Management (CRM) systems, for instance, help businesses manage customer interactions, track customer history, and segment audiences for targeted marketing. Marketing automation tools streamline communication processes, which ensures timely and relevant interactions with customers. Social media platforms facilitate direct engagement and feedback, while data analytics tools provide insights into customer preferences and trends. 

Barracuda B2B Marketing

Barracuda B2B Marketing, a company led by Gina Tabasso, exemplifies the relational nature of marketing. With a focus on realistic and proven strategies, Barracuda B2B Marketing empowers B2B companies to elevate their brand and generate quality leads. Gina’s approach involves understanding the unique needs of each client, building trust through data-driven decisions, and maintaining a strong digital presence. By offering personalized services such as marketing strategy development, CRM implementation, and content creation, Barracuda B2B Marketing helps businesses create and nurture lasting relationships with their customers. 

Marketing is inherently relational, focusing on building and nurturing connections between businesses and their customers. Understanding the customer, building trust, engaging with the audience, personalizing experiences, creating emotional connections, and investing in long-term relationships are essential components of relational marketing. By embracing the relational nature of marketing, businesses can achieve sustainable growth and build lasting relationships that benefit both the company and its customers. And you might make a few new friends and make an impact in unexpected ways.